She is still my friend (not
girlfriend). The way she made her boyfriend quit smoking forever is amazing.
When she revealed her plan to me I could not have controlled my huge laughter.
I was just laughing loudly as if she told me a joke of the millennium. But
after a few months when her boyfriend refused an offer of cigarette in a party
that was unbelieving for me. But eventually I had to believe when on several
occasions he refused to smoke. This she made with her love and care. It sounds
so simple when we talk about using the feelings of love and care to make your
loved ones quit any type of bad habit. But here we do a big mistake. We don’t
make our loved ones believe how much loving and caring we are for them and just
try to dictate them a list of dos and dons. Showing your love with words is
damned easy but proving it with your action is hell of a task. My friend first
proved how much loving and caring she is to her boyfriend and then made him
quit smoking forever.
I love your habit of smoking
This was the first message she
communicated to her boyfriend. Not through words but through her actions. She
made him buy a very stylish cigarette case. She also presented him a very
costly lighter to make him feel she loves his habit of smoking. She also
shifted her cigarette brand from low cost to costlier one just want him smoke
with a style to let others know how rich he is. This was the trick she played
with him to made him quit smoking forever.
Smoking is not very much injurious to health
She never told her how injurious
smoking is to his health. Nor she tried to make him see any campaign against
smoking. She just made him believe she never mind his habit of smoking.
Meanwhile she supports him from all aspects to keep smoking and enjoy his life.
Real cause of smoking
Being so closer to him she got to
know his real cause of smoking. She learnt that he used to smoke whenever he was
in stress. So he tried to find out the causes of his stress. She tried to
offset them with her love and care. She managed his several things by herself. She
never made him feel she is doing any blessings for him. Just in fun she kept
cooperating with him and made his life easier with her devotion and care.
Less smoking
Eventually he smoked lesser
cigarettes in a day than before. He also realized this fact. During this period
he fully believed in her sincerity, love and care for him. That is why he
believed in whatever she said. Then she exploited this honored position and
told him the real cause of his smoking is not fun, style of habit but the
stress in his life that is reducing now gradually. So both of them tried to
managed their life and succeed in their attempt. Now both are husband and wife
with two kids and no one in their family even think about smoking.
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